HOOK
What if the biggest first-date red flag is something people brush off as “just nerves”? A lot of bad matches reveal themselves early if you know what to listen for.
[Quick cuts: coffee shop date, phone buzz, awkward smile]KEY POINT 1
If they talk about every ex like they were the only problem, that’s a warning sign. Good chemistry includes some accountability, not a highlight reel of blame.
[B-roll: person scrolling through texts, then pausing]KEY POINT 2
Watch for disrespect disguised as humor. Teasing your appearance, your job, or your opinions “as a joke” can be a test for how much they can get away with.
[B-roll: awkward laugh at table, then serious expression]KEY POINT 3
Pay attention to how they handle boundaries. If you say you want to leave early, avoid certain topics, or keep things slow—and they push back—that matters more than charm.
[B-roll: person checking watch, setting a drink down calmly]CTA
The best dating advice is simple: trust patterns, not promises. If you want more practical signs to look for before date two, follow along for more dating tips.
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